Someone's life is getting worse and worse. Is it because he didn't do a good job?
Luotuo Xiangzi never understood until his death why he worked hard to pull a cart but could not earn a cart of his own.
In the end, he married Huniu and fell in love with a rich woman, who bought him a car.
Little did they know that Hu Niu ate too much and became too fat during pregnancy, which resulted in a difficult delivery.
After Huniu died, Xiangzi had to sell the car to pay for the funeral and other expenses.
Xiangzi, who did not smoke, drink, gamble, or have any bad habits, worked hard. He only focused on his car, but in the end he lost it. He tried his best to change the current situation of poverty...
Isn’t that true for many of us?
Some people work hard all their lives but never own a house of their own, and experts say they don't work hard enough.
Some people never get a wife in their life, and are ridiculed by others for not working hard enough.
Some people spend their whole lives driving screws in a car factory and never have a car of their own. Is this because he doesn't work hard enough?
Why do so many people fall into the trap of becoming busier as they get poorer, and getting poorer as they get busier?
After my thinking about this society, I summarized it as follows:
Before summarizing, let’s take “Camel Xiangzi” as an example.
Huniu lost her mother since she was a child and has been living with her father Liu Siye.
Fourth Master Liu is considered a figure in the capital. How did Fourth Master Liu make his fortune in the circumstances at that time?
It’s not hard work anyway.
It’s very clear in the book, so I won’t go into it here.
After Huniu marries him, Xiangzi can take advantage of Huniu's platform to rise from a coolie to a car dealership manager.
But Xiangzi thinks that this is a soft rice, and the waist is not straight. The problem is that you have married Huniu, and you have already put on the hat of a soft rice, so what do you care about?
Is face so important?
Hu Niu didn't buy your car for you.
Therefore, some people have been living in their own small world and wishful thinking.
This is the reason why the busier we are, the poorer we become.
How to get rid of the "poor and busy" life?
1. Think about yourself.
The old, stereotyped thinking must be changed. Empty out the old routine and embrace the new way of thinking, and you will be a new you.
2. Think about human nature.
Human nature is selfish, likes to take advantage, and often loses oneself and achieves others. Therefore, we must make use of people's hearts, start from altruism, and start from the present. Where the heart is, there is hope.
3. Think about society.
Remember a sentence: A man will not be rich without windfall, and a horse will not be fat without night grass. The bold ones will be starved to death, and the timid ones will be starved to death. If you want to make a little money, learn from Xiangzi and pull a cart. If you want to make a lot of money, you must understand the overt and covert laws of society and the truth, and then bravely go for it.
